At first I didn't like it at all; it seemed that not only did all my neighbors know my name, but they also knew my business! For several years it drove me practically insane. And, it didn't matter where you went or who you met, they either knew something about you or they knew a friend of yours and more often than not they were related to them!
But, over the years I have come to the conclusion that this could be a good thing! For instance, if your car gets stolen...someones going to see it happen! And, they will be able to tell you WHO did it! That happened to me once! Also consider this... you never have to eat alone! It's pretty much guaranteed that if you go into a restaurant between the hours of 11am & 1pm by yourself there's going to be someone in there that knows you and will invite you to pull up a chair! Yes, there are many benefits to living in a small town, but I think what I like most about it is knowing that even in a room of strangers you're not going to be a stranger for long.
I grew up in a small town (no song reference intended) but I find that these days I lean more towards the "city" habits. It's nice when neighbors say hello, but it gets on my nerves sometimes when it goes futher. I think it's OK though as long as there's a space to retreat to! Glad it's working for you though. I can see the appeal.
ReplyDeleteLOL ~ I had that same song running through my head when I was writing this post!
ReplyDeleteI didn't think I would ever be able to get use to "small town living", but I guess like anything else you settle in and go with the flow. Before you know it you're hooked!
The "Chit-Chat" definitely got on my nerves, and still does to some extent, but I think a lot of that is just my personality.
Have a great day Brent!